Cabled!

After NOT receiving the NVC letter that informs us that our I800 was cabled to Guangzhou, I decided to call the NVC tonight and I must admit, I am so happy I did! According to the NVC Representative I spoke to on the phone, our information was cabled to the US Consulate in Guangzhou on April 21st! Come Monday morning, I must call our agency with this wonderful news!

another step closer...

As for now, I found myself once again not-soon-patiently waiting for our Article 5 to be issued by our Consulate in Guangzhou.

***NVC = National Visa Center****

Care Package #2 and Shopping {what more can you ask for}!!!

Care package is due to arrive at Benjamin's SWI on April 26th!

Seeing how we are once again getting ready to send out Care Package #2, I found it only fitting to share with you all the great stuff that will be included this time in our son's box!



a soft cuddle blanket...



a pair of fishes shorts....



a Tony Stewart {for when he drove for Home Depot} race car...



an truly adorable monkey stuffed animal...



two packs of Dum-Dum pops...



a disposable camera...



and last but not least ~ a photo of his "soon-to-be" family {all labeled in English & Chinese}!








I am really hoping to get these carefully hand-picked surprises off to him within the next two weeks!


PLUS



While I was out shopping for all those goodies listed above, I found some other MUST HAVE items that I just couldn't pass up!



a pair of shark sandals...



a dragonfly bubble blower with bubbles (Francesca and Annabelle already have a set each as well)...



a few pairs of "big boy" briefs {Thank You Sara for the inside scoop on those}...



and a "way too cute for words" "Sharkie" Polliwalks (which I found at TJ Maxx for $8.00)!!!!





I never imagined shopping for a little boy could be this much fun! Can't wait to see what else I find over the next couple of weeks while I try to get - not only ourselves - Benjamin room, closet and dresser drawers filled with everything he will need!!!!

A few UPDATES!!!!

OK here is the photo that I received from our agency on Friday along with some updated measurements...

Currently ~

Benjamin is...

24.25lbs

30.3" tall

head measures 18.5"

chest measures 18.9"

each foot measures 5.1"

and he has 16 teeth!

Seeing how I am comparing these measurements to our Annabelle's (who is one tiny little girl), our Benjamin is truly one tiny little boy! I was planning on taking 2T clothing but it is now looking like I NEED to take 24 month size clothing as well...

Lucky for me I didn't purchase any more pajamas than the ones that my dear friend, Sara, sent to him this past spring which are 2T and are looking to be a perfect fit! As for his shoes, I have a few pairs of sandals purchased that are size 6 which I think as going to work!

Now ~ when do I think we'll travel, I am now thinking early June? Who knows? But we did find out that our I800 was processed on April 14th. We also just sent in our DS-230 along with a few finally fees needed for Benjamin's visa.

I am also getting ready to send out another care package to our baby boy. It has a blanket in it, a monkey stuffed animal, a #20 Home Depot Matchbox car, 2 large bags of lollipops for everyone to enjoy and a photo of his new family (along with a few other things)!!!! Hoping to get it sent out this week :)

I am still planning on posting to this site when we travel. Not sure if I'll be posting every day (seeing how there will be 6 of us once Benjamin comes) but I will try to do my best! Plus my notebook has been "misbehaving" on me lately. As much as I don't want the expense of a new notebook before traveling, we just might have to bite the bullet and get a new one.

So for now, this is where we are at! Hope you all enjoy the updated photo and measurements as much as we did!!!

LOA!!!!

YES ~ Our LOA has arrived today at CCAI (our agency)!!!! It is looking like we will be traveling...once again to China...by the end of May/beginning of June! Words can not express how excited & happy we are!!!!!

CAKE! FRIENDS! and A PAIR OF RED HORNS! What more can we ask for!

Looking at all the photos we received today truly had me in tears this morning.

I felt it in my heart that we were going to "hear" something today.

As I woke up this morning, I couldn't get out of the bed fast enough. I raced down stairs, turned on my computer, got my coffee, fed Honey Bear (and let him outside to do his business) and waited & waited for my dinosaur notebook to come to life.

Once it "decided to" start moving...

The first site I hit was yahoo to see if any new emails had come in an THERE THEY WERE...all 8 EMAILS including countless photos of our sweet adorable Benjamin, enjoying some Chinese New Year Celebration cake we had sent to his orphanage (along with a few other things)!

As I started opening every.single.email, I called for Keith to come down stairs.

He knew it must be something important for I would never risk raising my voice while the girls were still sleeping.

Soon he was seated beside me on the couch and I quickly started the slide show of priceless photos that we received...

As each photo flashed before our eyes on the notebook's screen, Keith turned to me and said, "Honey, that's your baby boy! That's MY baby boy! Oh My God Shell, THAT'S OUR BENJAMIN!"

Both of us were so over come with emotion... that could never be put into words.

We wanted to stare at each & every photo for hours and talk about what's about to happen...

and than...

Reality Hit ~ It is only Friday...Keith has to go to work...Francesca needs to get up & ready for school...and Annabelle ~ who at this point was crying out for me to come & get her ~ was also ready to start her day.

So away the photos went along with the computer...until NOW!

LOOK & SEE for yourself below!

That's our little boy!

This is our Benjamin!






(so our referral told us he likes cake and from the look of things...it is so true!)




(see the dimple...our son has dimples!)





(talking on the phone ~ he is truly my son!)




"Our dearest Benjamin, I truly hope you enjoyed your cake and all the other goodies we had sent to you. Counting down the days until you are in our arms...Love you so very much."

The long road that lead us to Benjamin....

I have been asked ~ a lot lately ~ why adopt, why adopt from China, why a special needs child, and why a boy? And the simple answer for us is ~ Why not!

But our journey to Benjamin is truly "treasure map worthy"...for it was a path that our hearts have been trying to tell us for so long to follow...

When Francesca was placed into my arms while at the civil affairs office in Nanchang, ever.single.emotion. anyone possibly could experience, I did. From total excitement to being 100% scared - I felt them all.

About 18 months after our Francesca came home, she was diagnosed with a serve megacolon.

It was during those 18 months of running from doctors - to specialists - and back to more doctors' offices, that I started following along in other parents' web blogs that too have adopted or were waiting to adopt a special needs child. One of these families in particular that I followed was Lisa L. from Tennessee who was at the time waiting to travel to China for their son, Brady.

(this was the first time I truly felt compelled to follow along with an adoption journey since arriving home with Francesca back in November of 2005 and it was also the first time I ever read about adopting a little boy ~ see that window starting to open...)

It was also from Francesca's diagnosis that we found our hearts once again calling us to the road of an adoption with China's program and we were soon placed on the path to our Annabelle, who we adopted from CCAI's waiting child/special needs program back in October 2008.

Our Annabelle was too diagnosed with a megacolon and was placed on CCAI's designated list of special needs children in June of 2008.

We were once again so excited about our second daughter ~ through this amazing process called adoption.

This time when we traveled to China, I was 100% more prepared. Ever "bump" along the way (and trust me there were many) I didn't stress over. I must admit, I was proud of myself for the way I handled just about everything. I never thought I would be a mother of one child...let alone two. I never dreamed that during Annabelle's adoption journey our hearts would be called once again to adoption, but this time it was for a little boy.

While we were visiting Annabelle's orphanage in Jiaozuo, Henan Province, we were truly touched by almost everything that we saw there.

All those babies, toddlers, and children who were just so excited to see us was so very emotional.

While we did see the good, the not so good, the survivors, and the dying, my heart starting whispering once again...

One of the survivors that we've seen while at Jiaozuo SWI was a little boy named, "David". He is truly a survivor. For you see, he had survived from being lite on fire by a member of his family. Now living with a body that is 99% covered in burn scars from that unthinkable act of cruelty, just seeing his smile & his excitement over our presence was a moment that I will never forget. It was than that I heard my heart screaming, A SON!

On our way back to the hotel after visiting Annabelle's orphanage and getting our papers notarized, I could not get that imagine out of my head of David smiling at me. And while Keith & I did talk about what we experienced at the orphanage, the words, "my heart is calling me once again to adopt Keith, but this time it is a little boy" were never spoken.

(I tried to block these feelings and thoughts out from my mind and heart but I knew those feeling & thoughts would not be going away any time soon...but still I kept quiet)

Fast forward to the end of our trip...

Since Annabelle was cared for most of her life at Hope in Beijing, we felt we needed to make a special stop there before leaving.

Our time at Hope was very different than our time at Jiaozou. Hope was so bright, cheery, and they had a ton of nannies on staff to care for and love each & every child there. One little boy in particular was Gabriel. As soon as he saw Keith, he crawled over to him, placed his arms around his leg and won't let go. Keith immediately picked him up and from that moment on they were inseparable. After spending over two hours visiting Hope, we got into our van to go back to our hotel. It was about 20 minutes into the ride that Keith turned to me and said just two words, "a boy". Just hearing those two words had my mind racing with a million thoughts and it wasn't again until we were back at the hotel on our final night in China that Keith spoke to me about his heart calling him to adopt a little boy.

We left Beijing the next day for our long plane ride home.

eight weeks go by....

And we are having lunch with our friends, The Fitch family (who traveled with us back in October for their daughter Hannah) . During the conversation, both Lori and I start talking about adopting once again (by this time, Keith and I are talking about an adoption, but we were not 100% committed). As soon as the words "adopt once again" was mention, both guys (Keith & Lori's husband Al) quickly got into our girl conversation. It wasn't long after that day, that Keith and I found ourselves once again filling out a medical conditions checklist with CCAI. In the past, we only requested, a girl ~ well this time we requested a boy or girl and listed any type of bowel, gastric, anus, rectum, and/or colon condition. We were told by our agency that we may never get a referral for they never get files on children with those types of medical problems (in my heart I had no doubt that we wouldn't hear something for we heard those same words when we submitted a MCC for our Annabelle and listed megacolon on it...and just look how that one turned out). This was all in December of 2008 ~ only 8 weeks since coming home with our Annabelle.

again months go by...

and not one word from our agency....

but a little boy was still strong within my heart and Keith's too...

Than on May 2nd, we receive and email from the head of CCAI's Waiting Child Department asking us "if we would be interested in a rectal-urethra fistula diagnosis and if so please contact the Waiting Child Department as soon as possible". Now I actually received this email on Friday, the 1st, but it was late Friday evening when it was originally sent. Seeing how I was up at my mom's for supper that night, I missed the email. Once I arrived home later that Friday evening, Keith was there waiting for us (after a long drive from DC) and after not seeing him the whole week, we had a lot of catching up to do. So I didn't have a chance to sit down at my computer and check my emails until early Saturday morning...while I was drinking my first cup of coffee. It all seems so surreal now, but at that moment of reading that email, my hands were shaking so bad that I couldn't drink my coffee. Seeing how it was only 7AM and I knew Keith was beyond exhausted, I quickly called my mother who I just knew would be up. It seems I couldn't get the words out fast enough. I was so excited, confused and yes once again scared. I read my mom that email over & over again...and we talked for about an hour. My mom having the medical background, experience and education knew within seconds what I was saying. She too started getting excited over the idea of another grandchild. We both felt in our hearts that THERE was a file out there on a child who could soon be ours...It was enough to get my hands sweating and my mind racing. She reassured me over & over again about this condition, gave me all the facts and simply asked, "Do you need me to come down?" I told her no that I was OK, but I needed to wake Keith up and tell him about the email. By that time, the girls have already woken up Keith and he was on his way down stairs. As I bounced into the kitchen, he asked, "So what's going on already this early Saturday morning?" My reply to that question was, "Do you really want to know...no matter what it may be?" His answer of course was, "Yes." So there I was explaining to him about the email that I received from CCAI and told him exactly what it said. As I was floating around the room, my mind swirling once again in thought of another child, Keith just looked at me and said, "Well you'll have to call them on Monday and see what's going on. "

and we didn't talk about that email and the possibility of that email the rest of the weekend...

Monday morning came and Keith held off on his long drive back to DC. Our agency would open at 10AM Eastern Time and it was exactly 10:01AM that I was dialing CCAI's phone number. I spoke first to their operator who I asked if she could connect me to Densise in the Waiting Child Department. I was than told she was not going to be in until after 11AM (their time) so knowing that we would not hear anything for at least another 3 hours, Keith headed down the road, back to work. Around 1PM our time, I did get that phone call that our hearts have been so secretly waiting for...a referral for a little boy! Let's just say I couldn't get off the phone fast enough to I call Keith and tell him the beautiful news....

On May 11, 2009, we started ~ once again ~ paper chasing for our third child ~ our first son Dang Zi Zhong (soon to be Benjamin James Zi Leonard).

As many of you know, it has been a long & crazy journey for us ~ so far ~ and we are only half way through it. I hope this answers some of the questions we have received over the past several months about adopting from China, adopting a special needs child from China, and most of all adopting a little boy from China.

As for our son, Benjamin ~ We are coming to get you very soon. We promise. We love you so very much and are counting down the days until you can be held for the first time within our arms...

A {our} little boy has been growing in our hearts for so very long now...and we still are not there ~ just yet....

Care Packages, Shopping & Sleepless Nights ~ Oh My

Since finding out we are LID, I have contacted Adele from Blessed Kids about putting together a care package for our darling Benjamin. I am so hoping {praying} that we do receive some updated photos and a current health report on our son. As the excitement is finally setting in that "We are traveling back to China for our first son!" we are once again faced with a very long time until we do travel. While I wish we were leaving tomorrow, I know that there is so much that I need to do to prepare the house and ourselves for another little one!

Just having this LID has truly opened me up to finally believing that this will happen. I found myself not being able to sleep last night, but instead I was working my fingers fast on my notebook's keyboard trying to grab up all those amazing sales that are happening this time of the year. I purchased a few outfits and some great boy toys...just for him. Our Benjamin needs just about everything. I am hoping to find some pajamas this coming week for as of now, he only has one pair (and that was a gift from my one of my dearest & sweetest friends ~ ever ~ Sara). I know, I know, I still have a lot of time to all of this, but anyone who truly knows me knows that I am not one to sit back and relax while there is still so much to do.

Currently I am purchasing 3T size clothing. Back in September, Benjamin was...
29.1" tall
22 lbs
each foot measured 4.3"
and he had 16 teeth

When I compare his measurements to that of our Annabelle's, they are so very similar in size (even though they are 6 months apart). Seeing how she is wearing 24 month/2T size clothing, I felt it was safe to purchase 3T for him.

So looking forward to getting an update on our little boy! And when we do, I promise I will post as much information as I can....